You know we, as women, take offense when men indicate that we are acting unreasonable due to "that time of the month." But, I am here to tell you, sometimes, they are right!
I talked in my last post about how great my actual birth day was. However.....the following day....I was irrational, sensitive, and downright B I itchy. I honestly don't know how a man can deal with a hormonal woman.
There was so much going on with me that I think a jury of my peers (women, that is) would have given me a verdict of not guilty by reason of temporary insanity.
1.) It was the day after my birthday;
2.) I had been home with a sick child two days of the week,
3.) Which, caused me to have to call in sick to work;
4.) It is my PMS time; and
5.) I have been so enthralled with reading good blogs and the hubby with fantasy football, that we haven't been snuggling up at night, so I was feeling disconnected.
Every place that I saw to dig at my poor hubby, I took. If some guy said something on TV, I took the opportunity to turn it on him. For instance, we were watching a movie and one of the actors played a very chevenistic guy who said that if a woman wanted to be wanted, she should hit a stair master.
I know, I know, you are thinking "NO, you didn't!"
But, YES I DID!
I turned it around to indicate that I needed to lose weight or my poor hubby wouldn't be attracted to me. (Yeah, I am 100% sure that I didn't say anything nearly so nice!)
After hours of this....my poor hubby was desperate for a hiding place! I cried for seemingly no reason, I got angry for imagined slights, I even freaked out (I mean screamed and cried) because my hubby tried to touch me with what I imagined were dirty hands.
The worst part is that even when I realized that I was being unreasonable, I couldn't stop. Luckily, I woke up the next morning in a seemingly better mood and a very contrite heart. I only hope that I doesn't take my hubby months to get over that night as I am sure that it would take me.
I talked in my last post about how great my actual birth day was. However.....the following day....I was irrational, sensitive, and downright B I itchy. I honestly don't know how a man can deal with a hormonal woman.
There was so much going on with me that I think a jury of my peers (women, that is) would have given me a verdict of not guilty by reason of temporary insanity.
1.) It was the day after my birthday;
2.) I had been home with a sick child two days of the week,
3.) Which, caused me to have to call in sick to work;
4.) It is my PMS time; and
5.) I have been so enthralled with reading good blogs and the hubby with fantasy football, that we haven't been snuggling up at night, so I was feeling disconnected.
Every place that I saw to dig at my poor hubby, I took. If some guy said something on TV, I took the opportunity to turn it on him. For instance, we were watching a movie and one of the actors played a very chevenistic guy who said that if a woman wanted to be wanted, she should hit a stair master.
I know, I know, you are thinking "NO, you didn't!"
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But, YES I DID!
I turned it around to indicate that I needed to lose weight or my poor hubby wouldn't be attracted to me. (Yeah, I am 100% sure that I didn't say anything nearly so nice!)
After hours of this....my poor hubby was desperate for a hiding place! I cried for seemingly no reason, I got angry for imagined slights, I even freaked out (I mean screamed and cried) because my hubby tried to touch me with what I imagined were dirty hands.
The worst part is that even when I realized that I was being unreasonable, I couldn't stop. Luckily, I woke up the next morning in a seemingly better mood and a very contrite heart. I only hope that I doesn't take my hubby months to get over that night as I am sure that it would take me.
I'm sure he accepted this post as an appropriate apology! We all have those days, for sure :)
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